there’s a kind of not knowing which is a lack of confidence...when one isn’t aware of the effects of behaviour...i.e. the lack of awareness that virtue leads to happiness and vice to unhappiness, buy definition, and for lack of a better definition...to realise which of our own behaviour is likely to effect us... consequences of ways of behaving, etc...what leads to what...absence of rational logical reasoning...
then there is another kind of not knowing which is about outcome or result...i.e. non-expectation...not knowing what somebody else will do or why or how and being open and able to adapt and be flexible to those outcomes....
the internal not knowing is an indecision which saps ones energies, which turns self against self...this is destructive...but the outward oriented not-knowing allows mystery, and freedom for others to be who they are...allowing others an open space, not manipulating them or forcing the outcome of encounters with them...this is liberating...
then there is another kind of not knowing which is about outcome or result...i.e. non-expectation...not knowing what somebody else will do or why or how and being open and able to adapt and be flexible to those outcomes....
the internal not knowing is an indecision which saps ones energies, which turns self against self...this is destructive...but the outward oriented not-knowing allows mystery, and freedom for others to be who they are...allowing others an open space, not manipulating them or forcing the outcome of encounters with them...this is liberating...